Are you a bride-to-be considering foregoing tradition and having a first look on your wedding day? In other words, are you envisioning the moment when your groom's eyes meet yours as you walk down the aisle in front of your guests, or during more of an intimate moment between just you, your groom, and your photographer? As seasoned wedding planners, we have witnessed firsthand the transformative impact of a first look on the wedding day experience. Let's delve into the world of first looks, weighing the pros and cons while highlighting our favorite benefits that come with this modern approach.
Photos by : Ellie McKenzie, Ellie McKenzie Photography; Beth Samples, Samples Photo and Cinema; Tomas Jose, TJ Photos; Matthew and Emily Powell, Matt and Emily Photography; Lindsey Pierce, Lindsey Pierce Photography
The Pros of Embracing a First Look
Intimacy Experiencing a private first look is like having your own moment away from the hustle and bustle of the ceremony and party. Seeing each other before saying your vows can truly set the tone for the rest of the day. Couples often also use this time to share intimate gifts or vows that might be emotional. Remember, not everyone feels like being intimate moments in front of a big crowd, and that's totally cool too!
Time Together While tradition is valuable, a traditional wedding often results in the couple being apart for most of the day. Some couples choose to have a first look to spend more time together. It is normal to feel anticipation on the wedding day; having a first look can ease nerves by allowing the couple to share the day together.
Photography By opting for a first look earlier in the day, you create additional time for capturing exquisite photos. The daylight can accentuate the beauty of these moments, leading to stunning images that will be treasured forever. While the ceremony offers its own unique charm and moments between the couple, why not seize the chance for even more memorable moments?
Timing One of the main benefits of having a first look is the smoother progression of the wedding day timeline. By handling important moments like photo sessions and family portraits in advance, the couple can smoothly move from one part of the day to the next without any sense of hurry or stress, allowing them to savor each moment of their special day together.
But What About Tradition?
Tradition plays a significant role in weddings, often guiding couples towards the classic format of seeing each other for the first time as the bride walks down the aisle. However, times are changing, and breaking away from tradition to embrace a first look can add a unique and personalized touch to your special day. By nature, weddings are traditional and we can guarantee there will be more traditions shared throughout the day.
Other options besides a first look can create a meaningful moment between the bride and groom. Some couples prefer to exchange romantic letters or send each other gifts through their bridesmaids or groomsmen. Additionally, some couples decide to have a "first touch" experience, where they touch or hold hands with a physical barrier separating them, such as a door or wall.
Still On The Fence? Consider This!
One common concern among brides is whether having a first look will diminish the emotional impact of walking down the aisle. To put it plainly – it won't! In fact, the emotions shared during a first look often enhance the moment when the bride makes her grand entrance.
While we prefer a "first look" ...
With all the benefits of emotional connection, stress relief, extended photography opportunities, and improved schedule flow, it's clear that opting for a first look can elevate your wedding day experience in ways you never imagined. Embrace this modern trend and pave the way for a day filled with joy, love, and unforgettable moments.
... ultimately, every wedding depends on each couple and their personalities!
Rest assured that the decision to have a first look is a personal one that should be based on what feels right for you as a couple. We will always support our couples' decision if they choose to have a first look or to wait until the moment the bride begins walking down the aisle. We have plenty of couples that choose either option, and it's our job and pleasure to make your dream wedding come true!
So, what's your take? Are you ready to break away from tradition? Or is old school your favorite way to go? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!
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